A really close friend of mines always spoke to me about Melvin I wasn't looking for any new friends at the time to say the least but this friend of ours was so insistent she even used guilt to get me to agree to meet Mel. That was the best advice, I almost ignored, I met him at a city park in Palmdale,Ca accompanied by his son and we could tell at first glance that we could easily fall in love with one another.