FAQs

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Hey! Aren't you already married?

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Yup - we couldn't wait to tie the knot so we eloped in May 2023. We've uploaded lots of video and pictures to our Gallery!

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Will Leigh or Frank change their last names?

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Nope! We both value the identities we've built and will not be changing our names; Frank Sainato & Leigh McEntire are our married names! Plus, this makes us "the S&M Family" and we think that's pretty funny.

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My kids names weren't on the invitation, can I bring them?

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We really do love your kids! However, we are hosting an adults-only ceremony and reception. Every parent deserves a break, plus it's a Frank & Leigh party--it's no place for a child!! So book that babysitter, put your party pants on and get ready for a wild night!

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Where do I park my Subaru Baja?

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There is parking all over! The ceremony will be held on "The Great Lawn," an outdoor venue space at The Lodge. There is a parking lot available near The Lodge, as well as valet parking. For the cocktail hour and reception, the garages and parking lots near the center of the campus are very convenient.

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Will you make me go outside on a hot July day?

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We sure hope so! We will be having an outdoor ceremony (weather permitting) at Turning Stone's Lodge on The Great Lawn. In the event of rain, we will have the ceremony indoors in the Cayuga-Tuscarora Ballroom. Cocktail hour will be held indoors at the Mohawk Ballroom followed by the reception, which will be next door in the Oneida Room (also indoors).

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Is the ceremony and reception wheelchair accessible?

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You bet your hot wheels it is! Turning Stone has made all areas of their resort easily accessible, including the ceremony and reception locations. If you require special accommodations for your room reservation, please let Turning Stone know!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Ok you fun-loving lush, don't you worry! Yes there is - we've got you covered on this one!!

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What kind of food will you be serving at the wedding?

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In this economy?! Probably just cereal and cold hot dogs... Just kidding... we don’t know the full menu yet but we guarantee that the food is going to be stellar and you'll probably have to be rolled out of the ballroom at the end of the night like that blueberry girl from Willy Wonka! If you do have any dietary restrictions, please note that in your RSVP.

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Wait, there's over 2 hours between the ceremony and cocktail hour?! What do you expect me to do during that time?

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We highly recommend finding a roulette table and betting your entire life savings on black. There's a 50/50 shot you're going to have an epic night and you've gotta keep things spicy, right?! If losing everything you own isn't on your bucket list, or you believe that casinos are a regressive tax on the poor, then go explore the campus! There's a lot to see and do - we bet that time will pass by in a flash. Once the wedding party is done with pictures we will be heading over to the Motif bar in the center of the casino floor. Feel free to stop by and hang out!

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Will there be anything for me to do on Friday night before the wedding?

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Look at you, you party animal - you're really thinking ahead! Leigh's very talented brother-in-law, Gary Johnson, will be performing at the Motif bar on the casino floor from 8:30-11. Come join us for a drink!

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Since you're already married, is this still considered a wedding? Like...do you even need to do this?

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While it's not technically a "wedding", getting married just once was clearly not enough for us. We plan on making you sit through another heartfelt mushy gushy ceremony where we proclaim our love to each other but this time we won't need to sign a contract at the end. We're still workshopping some ideas but since you asked....we are considering calling this the FIRST ANNUAL MCENTIRE SAINATO WEDDING/NOT-REAL-WEDDING-BECAUSE-THEY'RE-ALREADY-MARRIED EXTRAVAGANZA!! Crucially, we are not "renewing our vows." If you saw the ceremony video, you would agree that would take too long. Instead, we're shortening the vows and training with an experienced bid house auctioneer to fit the depth of our feelings for one another within what we can afford under Turning Stone's new per-minute pricing policy. Vow good. You watch.

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Now, just RSVP on this website RIGHT NOW. But if you can't, then June 15