FAQs

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We kindly ask that you follow the names listed on your invitation. Any plus ones that are invited will be clearly stated.

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Is your wedding kid friendly?

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While we love all the children in our lives, our wedding will be an adults-only event, with the exception of those in our wedding party.

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Are there accommodations near the venue or hotel room blocks?

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We have reserved room blocks for the night before (10/9) and the night of (10/10) our wedding. The information and links are included in the "Travel" portion of our wedding website. If you miss the deadline to reserve a room in our block or the blocks are full, reach out to the hotel and mention our wedding anyway, they may be able to accommodate you with our discount in a room outside of our block. If not, you can find additional nearby accommodations on our "Travel" page as well. We recommend booking your rooms ASAP!

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Will there be a shuttle to and/or from the hotel(s)?

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We will not be providing guest transportation throughout the wedding weekend.

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What's the wedding dress code?

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Our dress code is black-tie optional. We ask that you wear a tuxedo or dark suit and tie, or an evening gown or a midi-length dress is appropriate. Our bridal party will be wearing burgundy, so if possible, we’d love for guests to choose other colors for the evening 🤍

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that our guests arrive and be seated no later than 2:15pm for the ceremony.

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What is the parking like at the ceremony/reception?

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There is ample parking at St. Lawrence O'Toole, including street parking and a parking lot. Old Tappan Manor has free valet parking on premise.