FAQs
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How do I RSVP?
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You can RSVP here on the website by selecting the RSVP tab at any time. We will include a paper RSVP with the formal invitation if you prefer to mail your RSVP back to us.
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What if I don't RSVP in time?
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Please RSVP by March 27, 2027 or we'll assume you're politely declining in the most mysterious way possible. While we will miss celebrating with you, we are required to provide our vendors with an exact headcount within the time they have given us. Thank you for understanding!
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What should I do if I cannot make it?
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You will definitely be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate "Regrettably Declines" on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP'd "Honored to Attend" but find you will not make it, please notify Lauren as soon as you are aware.
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Can I bring a date/plus one?
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Due to limited capacity, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. Your invite will be made out to "(Your Name) & Guest" if a plus one has been given to you. Your RSVP is also noted with how many seats we have reserved in your honor. Thank you for understanding!
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Is this a kid friendly wedding?
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We love and adore your little ones, however, we have decided to keep our ceremony and reception an adults-only event with the exception of those included in the wedding party. We encourage you to use this night as a fun date night! We appreciate you making prior arrangements so you can celebrate with us.
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What is the dress code?
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We'd love to see our family and friends get dressed up for our big day. Dress code is semi-formal/dressy casual. Men: Dress shirt + slacks (tie optional). Women: Midi dress, or dressy pants suit. Please no jeans, sneakers, and of course no white.
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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?
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We kindly ask you to avoid wearing colors traditionally reserved for the Bride: Whites, Ivories, and Creams. Please refrain from sage green as well.
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Is the Ceremony indoor or outdoor?
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Both the ceremony and reception are indoors.
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What time should I arrive?
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A time for the ceremony will be given on your formal invitation and we ask that you arive and be in your seat No Later Than 15 minutes before the ceremony starts. You may arrive earlier than 15 minutes and it will give you time to leisurely park, and find a seat.
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What if I am running late?
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Our ceremony will begin promptly at the time listed on your invitation. Unfortunately if you are not seated by then, you will miss the ceremony.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We are having an "Unplugged" ceremony, no phones or cameras in use until the reception. The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do." We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos/videos as you'd like!
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Can I post pictures and video from your wedding on social media?
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We politely ask that you refrain from posting any pictures from our special day to social media until after we have posted our first pictures as Mr. and Mrs. Swift
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Are there any venue rules we need to know?
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Yes, please note our venue has a strict no smoking or vaping on the premises policy. Please refrain from smoking while you are celebrating with us.
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Will there be a bar?
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Our reception will be alcohol free. We do promise a great time will be had by all!
