We’re getting married on Saturday, October 11, 2025 in San Diego, California. All events — the ceremony, reception and after party — will take place at: Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa 9700 N Torrey Pines Rd La Jolla, CA 92037 Festivities begin at 4:00pm.
The dress code is black-tie optional. Dark suits and ties for men, and floor-length or midi-length cocktail dresses for women, are perfect. Tuxedos and evening gowns are more than welcome, but definitely not required. Most of all, we want everyone to feel great and look their best for a night of celebration!
Using the enclosed RSVP card that came with your wedding invitation, please RSVP by August 31st. You can let us know if you're coming to the welcome party, the wedding or both!
Although we love your little ones, this will be an adult-only celebration. We hope you can enjoy this as an opportunity for a fun parents night out. Need childcare? The Estancia Hotel offers recommendations for local childcare services. Please contact the hotel directly for more information.
The answer is both! The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors, followed by the reception in a ballroom.
If you have any dietary restrictions, please either text Lance or Lauren, or note them on your enclosed RSVP card, so we can accommodate you. This applies to both the welcome party and the wedding.
Valet and self-parking options are available at the Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa for your convenience.
Yes! Please visit the Accommodations page for information on discounted room rates and other hotel recommendations.