AS SOON AS POSSIBLE
Yes, it is Formal Garden Party, so semi-formal but black tie is optional! So NO jeans! :) https://www.theknot.com/content/what-to-wear-formal-black-tie-optional-black-tie-invited
As much as we love kids, we are requesting this be an adult only wedding!
Due to budget constraints, if your invite has a plus one you can bring a date.