We met through a dating app in late February 2020. As if online dating isn't challenging enough, the Pandemic said, "Hold my beer!" The state of Oregon (the world) shutdown a few days before we were scheduled to finally meet in person. "What's 2 weeks?" we said. We were enjoying chatting and texting. We took the risk of building bonds that might not work once we were face to face. But we felt a pull, and we tried not to admit it out loud. Two months later of daily discussions, we had our first Zoom date on April 3. There was awkwardness, laughter, and smiles. This was as close to in-person as we were going to get, and yes, there was something special happening between us. The pull we felt became known as the magnets. We kept texting and calling, waiting for the day we could all go back to normal. Finally, on June 28, 2020, we met in person for the first time. Wearing masks, being outside, and trying to stay on opposite ends of the bench (almost 6' away), we saw each other IRL, right here at the Tsuru Island garden. Sean brought a mini speaker for some music, we shared bagels and conversation and made LOTS of eye contact. When we said goodbye, the magnets were so strong. We maintained our covid bubbles and resisted kissing but we could not resist giving each other a hug farewell. Kissing wouldn't come until June of 2021 (stupid Covid) and happened on the moon bridge at the entrance to the same garden. By that point we both were sure that we were meant to be in each other's lives.
To all of you who are near and dear to us, it shouldn't be a surprise that we're in love. It's not really something we can hide. We have nurtured that connection over years on our own. and with the unique and unwavering love and support of our partners, our family, and what each of you contribute into our lives. We are joyfully making a commitment to each other and honoring the extended family that it creates. A special thank you goes to Matt and Kim who have consistently provided unconditional love, support and a willingness to work through difficulties. They have made it possible for us to share an Unordinary Love and to grow together as chosen family. We call on you to witness and celebrate together. You are our community, our friends, and our family.