ASAP :) Port Townsend is a very popular tourist destination, and accommodations book quickly that time of year.
No. Please plan on driving to the ceremony/reception space, plan on taking a cab, or plan on walking.
We do not have specific hotel recommendations. Most hotels in the downtown area are nice, and are walking distance (.5 miles, uphill) to the ceremony/reception. There are also many cute Airbnbs in the area.
Unfortunately we are only able to accommodate children in the wedding party at our ceremony and reception.