FAQs

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Can I bring my kids?

Answer

We would like to limit the amount of children attending. If you can, we please ask that you find a sitter. If not, we understand, and would still love for you to join us, just make sure to let us know when you RSVP so we can plan accordingly.

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Will you be serving alcohol?

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Yes, there will be a open bar, but we ask that you please drink responsibly. And make sure you tip our bartenders.

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If I can't make it, where can I purchase a wedding gift from?

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If you can't make it, but would still like to show us love. We have a registry on this website you can purchase from. As well as a Honeymoon fund you can gift to ask well. www.honeyfund.com/site/shanks-bluitt-10-12-2025 We greatly appreciate all gifts, but we definitely hope to see you there more than anything.

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What do I need to wear?

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We asked that everyone wear cocktail attire. Our colors are plum, lilac, and emerald. If you would like to color coordinate with the wedding colors that's great, but if not that is fine too.

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Is there a seating chart for the reception?

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No, seating chart! Please sit where you would like, with the exception of the tables with the reserved signs, and mix and mingle.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Yes, but just one. Please make sure to let us know when you RSVP.

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When do I need to RSVP by?

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Please RSVP no later than September 15th. After the 15th you will no longer be able to RSVP. If you do not RSVP you will not be able to attend the wedding.

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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Yes, it's #aintnothingtoitbuttoBluitt If you post any pictures on social media, please be sure to use our hashtag.

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What accommodations are available for out-of-town guest?

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Please check the travel section of the website for all accommodations.

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Can I take photographs during the ceremony?

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While we love that you want to capture our special moments, we kindly request an unplugged ceremony to allow everyone to be fully present and immersed in the moment. We will allow time at the end of the ceremony for pictures.