FAQs

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What kind of wedding ceremony is this?

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Ours is an Orthodox Christian wedding ceremony. It’s deeply symbolic, reverent, and a bit different from your average American wedding (for example, there are no vows!). The service follows ancient Christian traditions that have been passed down for over a thousand years. It lasts about 45–60 minutes and is open to all.

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Will there be anything else going on the weekend of?

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Yes! Please check the schedule page for more information.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes—since the ceremony is in a church, we ask that guests dress modestly and respectfully—think “Sunday best.” Semi-formal attire is perfect: dresses or skirts that go to the knee or below, tops with sleeves or modest necklines. For men, button-down shirts and slacks are totally appropriate—no need for a full suit, but if you enjoy dressing up, go for it! Please also note that the service is mostly standing for those who are able, so we recommend wearing comfortable shoes.

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be held inside the church and the reception will take place outdoors under a tent on church grounds. Rain or shine, we've got you covered--literally!

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Can I bring my kids?

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Please do! Children are an integral part of life in the Church and it will be a joy to have them at both the ceremony and reception. We will have space, supervision, and food for little ones as well as plenty of peers to play with. Please just indicate how many children you will be bringing on your RSVP.

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Do I need to bring a gift?

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Your presence is the greatest gift! If you'd like to contribute, we are registered through Zola, which you can find under the "Registry" tab. We kindly ask that any gifts be shipped directly to our home for easier logistics. Thank you for your thoughtfulness!

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What kind of food will be served?

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We’ll be serving buffet-style BBQ, homemade with love by our wonderful parishioners. Expect Southern-inspired favorites with plenty of sides—including options for vegetarian, gluten-free, and dairy-free guests. Come hungry!

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What is the weather typically like at this time of year?

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Early October in southeastern North Carolina can still feel like late summer—warm, humid, and occasionally rainy. Daytime highs are often in the 70s or 80s, and evenings can be cooler but still mild. We recommend dressing in layers and wearing comfortable shoes, especially since the reception will be outdoors under a tent.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that during the wedding ceremony all guests remain present and refrain from taking photographs. Feel free to snap away during the reception!

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Our wedding ceremony begins at 3:00 pm. Please plan on arriving about 30 minutes before the ceremony to allow for time to park and make your way into the church.

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What about parking?

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The church parking lot is available to guests. Although we will have adequate parking available and an attendant, you may want to consider carpooling if possible.

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Will there be dancing?

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Yes! The reception will feature live music from local bluegrass band Folkstone String Band, plus some house music at the end of the night.

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I have a dietary restriction. Is there anything I can eat?

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Yes! Vegetarians, you won't have to eat lettuce sandwiches after picking the rest off of the items off the bread. We will be offering vegan-friendly BBQ, as well as gluten-free and dairy-free options. If you have a dietary restriction not listed here, please let us know ASAP.