The Gaye holud (pronounced guy hoolud) is an important pre wedding tradition at Bengali weddings. The term Gaye Holud translates roughly to body tumeric, It doesn't sound that great but it's one of the most enjoyable ceremonies. Decor tends to focus on bright and vibrant colors such as yellow, orange and pink as well as fresh flowers. Although similar ceremonies exist in other parts of the Indian subcontinent, the gaye holud is a custom particular to the Bengali people. It is not considered a religious function, as it is celebrated by Muslims, Hindus, and Christians in both Bangladesh, the Indian state of West Bengal and wherever Bengalis live irrespective of religion.
The bride and groom are seated on a dais and the turmeric paste is applied by the guests to their face and body. Turmeric is known to cleanse, soften and brighten the skin, giving the couple's skin the distinctive yellow hue that gives its name to this ceremony. It is believed to beautify the couple for their wedding day. The bride/groom is then fed a Bengali sweet to add sweetness to their married life. Lastly some people also wear mehendhi/henna on this day. After the holud is applied the bride has a shower and changes into her second outfit ready for the mehendhi. During the entire event, the family and friends of the couple perform skits and choreographed dance routines to entertain the bride and groom as well as the other guests.
Traditional Indian Attire such as Sari or Lehenga for women and Sherwni or Kurta for men. There is a Pintrest link below for inspiration. Please wear bright colors, and avoid white. Feel free to reach out to the bride or groom with questions. Teresa Ganguly (cousin of the groom) can also assist at 201-284-2842. https://www.pinterest.com/klbolts/gaye-holud-outfit-inspo/
Once the bride and groom have made their entrance, guests will be requested to come forward to take part in the ceremony and give your blessings by applying the holud and offering sweets to the couple. Guests will also have the opportunity to have henna applied if they chose. Dinner, Drinks and LOTS of Dancing to follow!
Yes! Transportation from the Blockade Runner on Wrightsville Beach to the Brooklyn Arts Center in downtown Wilmington will be provided to and from the event. It is about a 25 minute ride. The shuttle will leave at 4pm from the Blockade Runner, if you are unable to make the times offered, there is parking at the venue or Uber/Lyft is available.
American Cocktail Attire. **Please note the reception on a grassy lawn so please plan for appropriate footwear!
No, Saturday's ceremony and reception be on the Blockade Runner's ocean front lawn.