FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by September 13th, 2025.

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What COVID-19 precautions are you requiring?

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As many of you know, we have both been navigating Long Covid since late 2020 and still take many precautions in our day-to-day lives. If you are traveling via public transportation (flight, train, bus, etc.) we ask that you wear a high quality respirator (KN95 or better) while traveling. If this is not something you're willing to do, we respectfully request that you RSVP "no." If you frequent indoor crowded, high-risk places, we kindly request that you mask the week before our celebration to the best of your ability. If you are unable to do so, we encourage you to take an at-home test the day before or morning of the wedding.

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What about wearing a mask at the celebration?

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We will have KN95s available for all guests. If you are more comfortable masking even if we are not requesting people mask, we welcome you to do so!

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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The entire celebration will be held outdoors, with the exception of restrooms.

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Is there a dress code?

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Semi-formal. Midi- or knee-length dresses, jumpsuits, and dressy separates are all great. No need for a full suit and tie. We are going for a fall evening garden party vibe so jewel tones and florals are encouraged!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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The name of every guest invited to attend is listed on your invitation (this includes "and guest"). No additional guests can be accommodated.

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Food style?

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Hors d'oeuvres and buffet style dinner will be served.

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Open bar?

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Absolutely. (Pro tip: checkout the afterparty for a different kind of bar)

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Are you registered anywhere?

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In lieu of traditional gifts, please consider donating to one of the following organizations: Palestine Children's Relief Fund https://www.pcrf.net/ Gaza Soup Kitchen https://gazasoupkitchen.com/ Connecting Humanity https://connecting-humanity.org/donate/ Missouri Abortion Fund https://mofund.org/donate Iowa Trans Mutual Aid https://www.iowatransmutualaidfund.org/