FAQs- Wedding
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What will your wedding and events be like?
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We are having an intimate boutique wedding focusing on celebrating over a weekend with our close friends and family. These are loved ones we see on a routine basis and feel comfortable with some emotional vulnerability. We have a very small guest count, so that we can speak with everyone there and will not be meeting anyone new for the first time on our wedding day. This is also limited by our venue as well. The wedding weekend is Kentucky Elegance themed with Southern Magnolia greenery. •We want to celebrate with all of our extended family and have meet & greets another day- which is why we will be having larger, casual celebrations for each side of our families/ friends before the wedding. This will replace the traditional bridal shower with a celebration that fits our microwedding. Information for this will be updated on the Events Schedule tab- including theme information. Gifts aren’t expected for the wedding celebration, but are always appreciated.•
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Paper or digital invitations?
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We will only be sending digital invitations for all events- including the wedding via Zola text message. We understand this is non-traditional, but we believe it is the best approach for us and the majority of our guests.
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When is the latest I can RSVP?
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Please let us know ASAP if you cannot come- we are blessed with friends and family we would like to invite and are capped by the venue. If you do not RSVP yes 6 weeks out, we will assume you will not be attending. This is IMPORTANT.
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Can I bring my kids or a plus one?
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Due to liability of the venue, limited numbers, and to allow our guests to fully relax and enjoy their evening, this event is adults-only! If your invitation does not specifically state your + 1’s name, then unfortunately you cannot have a +1. We are very tight on guest count and can only accommodate those we know well in association to immediate friends and family.
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Dress code?
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We want to see all of our close loved ones all dressed up! This event is garden formal with black tie optional. That means long dresses for the ladies and suits or tuxes for the guys. We ask that you wear the colors black, all shades of green* (the bride would love to see lots of green!), browns, greys, pale yellow, light pink, or magenta for cohesive photos of the event. (Magnolia colors- leaving white for the bride!). The wedding party and immediate family will all be in black, black tie. You're welcome to still wear black, but we expanded the guest colors to give everyone plenty of options with the color scheme! bonus points with the bride if your formal wear is thrifted or you got a great deal on it! Check out the Pinterest board for inspo! https://pin.it/3RkTVPzZd
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Hotel rooms?
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Yes, we have a block at the Belterra Casino- it is right across the river in Indiana, but it is the closest hotel. There are also airbnbs in the area and camping.
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Registry?
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Our registries are integrated into our website and available on the top tab. We would be so grateful for any gifts we receive- whether they are gift cards, off the registry, honeymoon cash, or personalized keepsake gifts. We’ve included a few items off Etsy and anything personalized has comments that can by copied and pasted into the personalization section of Etsy upon purchase. -Anything that is a locally made or hand made alternative would be well loved! This is a guide of the colors and styles we gravitate to. Our home colors are the same as the wedding with varying wood tones, greens, and greige mixed with black and white. We also are in need of perennials and would love the gift of bulbs, roots or starters of *many, many, many hostas*, iris, lily, peonies, and *many Lenten roses*. If these came from your garden, it would be all the more special. You could also grab one of these instead of a card! Our registry items selected are carefully thought out since we are merging full, individual households. We will be living in Ben's house (to be fully renovated). If you are unsure or overwhelmed, Lowes gift cards are very handy for us and a safe choice.
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Weather plan?
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The wedding is only outdoors! It is along the riverfront, we have a lawn tent, but there's no AC except in the restrooms. You'll be on paved walkways and grass, so plan your shoes accordingly.
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Same location?
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We are at the same location all weekend. We want this to be as relaxing as possible for everyone. This is out in the middle of nowhere and fair warning of the winding drive (don't get carsick!)
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Parking / transport?
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There will be parking attendants showing you to a clover-covered parking lot on the property. Plenty of parking for everyone! You will need a sober driver to return to your hotel.
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Arrival time?
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Please arrive no more than 20 mins before the ceremony. The staff need to be ready and the wedding party and immediate family will be on the grounds taking pictures. No sneak peeks allowed! Earliest arrival- TBD pm EST Ceremony- TBD pm EST Cocktail hour- TBD pm EST Dinner- TBD pm EST Followed by the party
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Food allergies?
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Yes, we are happy to accommodate most food allergies and dietary restrictions! Please ensure you let us know in advance.
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Alcohol?
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There will be a signature cocktail served for one hour, followed by unlimited beer and wine. Most of our guests are sober, so please drink responsibly and always drive sober.
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Are there any venue rules I should be aware of?
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We will be fined for any gum, cigarettes, confetti, faux flowers, underage drinking (they will call the police), or biohazards found on the property. There is a designated smoking area. They ask anyone that isn't staying the night to not linger in the house.
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Contact information
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You’re welcome to contact the bride, groom, or their moms up until May 2027. During the stressful final month of planning, please contact our liaisons for information (will update soon).