Formal and Fun! We encourage bright colors and garden wedding vibes, but overall we want you to be comfortable. Here's a link to some inspiration! (copy and paste into your browser) https://tinyurl.com/CCWeddingInspo
Yes! Their pronouns are they/them/theirs and they would REALLY appreciate you using these pronouns any time you are referring to them but especially at the wedding. This is a time to celebrate everything Thomas and Kourt are and using Kourt's correct pronouns is a big part of that. When talking about Kourtney please say "Wow they look beautiful!" or "I have known Kourtney since they were a kid...". You get the gist :) If you mess up, even if Kourt isn't around, please quickly correct yourself and move on. No need to apologize or make a big deal- but it might help to practice before the wedding! Feel free to talk all about Kourtney and how great they are to really solidify the use of they/them/theirs ! As far as the term "Bride" goes, no, Kourt is not using the term "Bride" but at this exact moment they're not sure what to use instead. Maybe "Broom"?? maybe "Gride"?? No? Okay they're still work shopping it. Check in later :)