FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by September 20th, 2025

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Are you registered? Where?

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We kindly ask for a monetary gift to help us begin our new chapter together. Your generosity will support our future plans, from finding a new home to creating lasting memories.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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4pm EST

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Is there a dress code?

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As we celebrate our special day amidst the breathtaking beauty of the Hudson Valley in autumn, we invite you to dress in elegant cocktail attire inspired by the rich, warm hues of the season; colors that reflect the vibrant fall foliage all around us. For gentlemen, a sharp suit or blazer paired with polished shoes will perfectly complement the occasion. For ladies, cocktail dresses or chic separates in seasonal tones will add a touch of autumnal elegance. We look forward to seeing you dressed to impress and ready to celebrate in style!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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If you plan to stay overnight, please contact Diamond Mills Resort & Spa at (845) 247-0700 to reserve your room for the night of our wedding. Be sure to mention the Kohler-Filarsky Wedding Block to receive the special group rate. To ensure availability and secure the discounted rate, reservations must be made by September 10th. There are other hotels and Airbnb available in the area. Don't hesitate to get in touch with us if you require assistance.

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Are kids welcome?

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We truly love your little ones, but to ensure a comfortable experience for all our guests, we kindly request that children attend only with prior notice and a brief explanation. While we prefer an adult-only celebration, we’re happy to consider exceptions on a case-by-case basis. Please reach out to us in advance if you plan to bring children so we can accommodate accordingly.

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Can I bring a date?

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We kindly ask that you bring a guest only if your invitation includes a “+1.” This helps us ensure we have enough space and accommodations for everyone. Thank you for understanding!