he cancels his Uber to talk to a pretty girl a little longer (“best $5 I’ve ever spent”) she draws him a map of Boston, dotted with all her favorite haunts, because she learns he’s new to the city she convinces him to take a Friday afternoon off to drive up to New Hampshire for a hike and make it back to Boston in time to catch the sunset on the Charles (“I think this is when we knew we had something” “me too”) he allows her dog in his car, muddy paws and all, even though there used to be a strict “no eating” policy she looks down at her “on repeat” playlist to realize half of it is filled with his favorite songs he picks her up from the train station at midnight, with a Tupperware of homemade chicken parm he takes her dog for a walk and sends her detailed updates and photos while she’s at a wedding without him she learns the words to the songs he’s learning to play; he learns the tabs to the songs she wants to sing he lets her drive his car back home from a ski trip in stop-and-go traffic and a snow squall (“you have to tell them that you stalled, though” “I stalled ONCE”) she takes him to a latviešu tautas dejās, and they stumble through the steps together he stays up late to help her finish a presentation for the interview she has the next day he writes her a google sheets macro, so she “stops wasting so much time manually categorizing every single credit card transaction…because she refuses to buy a license for microsoft excel” “her dog” turns into “their dog” by way of a hand drawn adoption certificate he picks her up five miles from home when her “long run day” didn’t go quite as expected she’s the breadwinnner and source of encouragement during his layoff (they trade places two weeks later) he encourages her to pick the job that gives more joy than money because “baby, we’re rich in love” they hold hands at weddings and funerals, hospital lobbies and waiting rooms she learns to care less about the things that don’t matter, and he more about the things that do he asks her to spend the rest of their lives together, in a quiet wood surrounded only by snow, and she has no other answer than “yes” they built a life filled with not just “good morning”, “i love you”, “did Lem eat yet”, turned to “she would have loved this”, but also...
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4:30 pm - 5:00 pm
Formal Attire
Ceremony will begin at 4:30pm with beverages to enjoy while you find your seat.
Travel Note
Stonington, CT is collection of villages and boroughs located on Long Island Sound. The area is sculpted by streambelts and salt marshes, cloistered by woodlands and farms, and lined with stone walls and a rocky shore. It's beautiful in the way quiet things usually are. Below are a list of options to get to one of our favorite corners of the world, whether by plane, train, or automobile. The ceremony and reception will be held at Saltwater Farm Vineyards, which is located at 349 Elm St, Stonington, CT 06378.
Flight
You've got three good options: RI T.F. Green International Airport, 40 miles Bradley International Airport, 80 miles Logan International Airport, 100 miles If flying, grabbing a rental car will be best!
Train
Mystic has an Amtrack stop! It's conveniently located in the center of town making it an 8 minute taxi to the venue or an 6-10 minute taxi to the hotel blocks. The Northeast Regional starts in Newport News, VA and ends in Boston, MA. It serves as an option to get you out of the skies and off the roads on a holiday weekend!
Hotel
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Hotel
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Owned by Māra’s cousins Jason and Amy, the Ditty Bag is a relaxing and inviting shop with a cafe and stocked with sustainable products, bulk foods, and zero-waste supplies. Conveniently located across the street from the Mystic Amtrak Stop!
July 31st - RSVPs can be completed on the "RSVP" tab. If any changes need to be made after submission, please text Māra (860-324-5870) and/or Chris (860-874-6613) directly.
We have requested a formal attire -- think suits of any color, gorgeous gowns, or elegant jumpsuits. The ceremony will be held on grass, while cocktail hour and the reception will be on pavers and concrete respectively. The after party is also both indoors and outdoors. Historically, early September on the Connecticut shoreline tends to be in the mid-upper 70's during the day and drop to low-mid 60's at night. For our guests living at altitude, a CT 75*F does not feel the same as a CO 75*F as humidity can be as high as 75%! If you run cold, a light jacket or shawl may be a great item to pack along.
This is probably the only time that we will say no. tell them we love them ♡
While we will have our ring bearer and flower girl during the ceremony, we request an adult-only celebration. We so appreciate you making childcare arrangements for your little ones.
Chris will remain a Silhavy. Mara will professionally stay a Koerner but socially become a Silhavy. What a modern world we live in!