FAQs

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IS THERE A DRESS CODE?

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We would love to see our friends and family get dressed up with us! We have envisioned an elegant, formal evening and have worked hard to make that vision come to life. Therefore, we are requesting BLACK TIE OPTIONAL attire -- it is a mansion after all! Men are encouraged to wear a tuxedo, but should not feel obligated to buy or rent one. A sharp suit and tie will do! Women should wear a formal long evening gown and comfortable dancing shoes! We want to show off our beautiful friends and family so dress to impress!

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DO YOU HAVE A REGISTRY?

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Your presence on our wedding day is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you wish to shower us with a gift, visit the "Registry" tab for more information.

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DO YOU HAVE A HOTEL BLOCK?

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Yes, we have arranged for discounted room blocks at the HYATT REGENCY in Hauppauge, NY. Head over to our "Travel" page to find more information on the discounted room block we have reserved for your convenience.

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WILL TRANSPORTATION BE PROVIDED TO AND FROM BOURNE MANSION?

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Yes, of course! There will be a 55-passenger shuttle bus to transport our guests between the Hyatt Regency Hotel and Bourne Mansion. The shuttle will leave at 4:45pm for the ceremony, with two departures at the end of the reception (10:30 and 11:15pm) to return our guests to the hotel. Don't forget about the after party!

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WHAT SHOULD I DO IF I CAN'T MAKE IT?

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You will be missed! If you cannot make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible by RSVP'ing "no," so we can plan accordingly.

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ARE CHILDREN WELCOME?

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Although we love your little ones, this will be an adult only affair. Unfortunately we are only able to accommodate the children in our wedding party at this event.