We'd love to see our family and friends dress up with us! We are requesting semi-formal and wear whatever color you would like, but please no white. The ceremony will be outdoors in a grassy area, so please take this into account when choosing your shoes!
This gives our guests (and ourselves) the time to enjoy our whole wedding weekend. We hope you can use the time to relax and make plans with the people you care about. It is also Columbus/Indigenous Peoples' Day weekend, so hopefully you already have Monday off.
We love your kids, but we want our wedding to be your night off!
If your invitation says "and Guest," then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.