Lots of waiting... very patient waiting. Now, all of our family and friends know that the dreaded question of "when are you getting married?" has been asking over and over the last 8 years. Look... we are ghetto married. It's close enough, just not legal. From being a baby ER nurse, getting picked up by the private EMS EMT to us now. Our lives have been nothing short of eventful since we met. We've now lived in a different city, 3 different houses, numerous different jobs, multiple surgeries and other ailments, grown our little fur-family, and through graduate school. Our KC realtor, Aaron, has joked that he needs to write a book on us and our bad luck. But phew, we made it to this. We cannot wait to celebrate with everyone. But, no. There are no invitations to our San Diego "ceremony". We are just going to share our love for that city with our closest friends, and maybe get some pretty pictures. Everyone who knows us, knows we would never make it through a traditional ceremony.