FAQs

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Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests list just to those who know us well. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated.

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Dress code is semi-formal or cocktail attire. Bright spring colors are encouraged. We kindly ask that you do not wear any jeans/denim.

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Is there on-site parking?

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There is a designated Essence Event Center lot directly in front of the main entrance. All vehicles must be moved by noon the following day. No overnight parking in any lot except the primary Essence Event Center parking lot. There is additional parking in the parking ramp next to Essence Event Center on levels 1 & 2. The parking spots in the parking ramp will be clearly marked by signage.

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Please respond by April 19, 2026. We hope to celebrate with you!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

Answer

We have a block of rooms reserved at the Courtyard by Marriott St. Paul Downtown. Call to reserve a room for the Kivley/Smith wedding.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

Yes! Please let us know when you RSVP and select your meal.