Please wear formal black clothing and keep the October weather in mind (it may be cold). Our wedding is a dark and non-traditional one, so essentially dress like you’re going to a funeral. 😉
Our wedding is going to be a gothic black and purple one. Traditional weddings just aren’t our style 😊
Some of you know that we’ll be having a handfasting ceremony incorporated into our wedding. Handfasting is more or less a literal depiction of tying the knot. We will be having two special family members wrap a cord around our hands and we will tie it together to symbolize us tying the knot. This is a very important ceremony to us. It is however a pagan tradition, so if you are not comfortable with this we encourage you to research it in your free time or simply not participate. We completely understand if this is new and uncomfortable for you.
While we are not asking for gifts, we’ve had a few people ask. Since we already have a house and live together, we have most things that we need. However, tupperware, candles, blankets, and other small things are always needed and appreciated!