FAQs
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What is the ceremony overview?
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Baraat The wedding starts with Jason’s arrival on a horse surrounded by family & friends with music & dancing. It is a lively start to the day as Jason’s family makes their way to the wedding. Ponkvanu & Jaimala Kinjal’s family welcomes Jason with aarti & a chanlo. Kinjal & Jason exchange flower garlands. Madhuparka Jason makes his way to the mandap & is welcomed by Kinjal’s parents. Antarpaat Kinjal makes her way to the mandap. As she walks down the aisle, a cloth (antarpaat) is placed in front of Jason so they don’t see each other until the perfect time. Kanyadaan Kinjal’s parents give her away, blessing them with happiness. Hasta Melap & Pheras A knot is tied between Kinjal & Jason to symbolize their union. They make their way around a sacred fire 4 times symbolizing the 4 pillars of a happy marriage. Pay attention to a fun part that Kinjal’s brothers have. During each turn around the fire, family & friends shower the couple with petals. Saptapadi Kinjal & Jason take 7 steps while reciting 7 sacred vows. Sindoor & Mangalsutra In lieu of traditional wedding rings, Jason applies sindoor (vermillion) to Kinjal’s hair & ties a mangulsutra (necklace) around her neck. Aashirvad The newlyweds touch their elders’ feet for blessings. Vidai Kinjal’s family bids her an emotional farewell as she begins her life with Jason. Bonus: stealing the shoes When Jason enters the mandap he has to take off his shoes. Kinjal’s family & friends will try to steal his shoes. If they succeed, he will need to negotiate & joke his way to get them back. Bonus 2: stopping the car During the Vidai, Kinjal’s sisters will try to block the car so Jason can’t leave with her. He better be ready with a good bribe to be able to get the bride. This is meant to be a lighthearted moment in what is otherwise a somber part of the ceremony. Western ceremony In the evening we will gather once more for a western ceremony. This service includes readings, vows & the exchange of wedding rings.
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Is there time between the 2 ceremonies?
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Yes, there will be a few hours in between the two ceremonies for you to go back to your home or hotel to rest and relax.
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Is there a dress code?
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Feel free to wear Indian or Wedding Formal attire to any of the events! During Indian weddings people often change (but it is not needed) from what they wear during the Hindu ceremony to what they wear to the reception. Do what makes you feel your best! Respectfully, we ask that you refrain from wearing black to the Hindu ceremony.
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When will there be food?
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Breakfast, coffee and chai will be served during the baraat and at the beginning of the Hindu ceremony. A vegetarian lunch will be served just before the vidai. Cocktail hour and dinner will consist of a variety of Indian, American and fusion cuisine.
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Is there a registry?
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We kindly request no boxed gifts.
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Is there a wedding hashtag?
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#kinjay
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Is there a place to book a hotel?
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Yes, you can book at the Holiday Inn Hazlet by IHG. 2870 Highway 35, Hazlet, NJ, US