FAQs
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What should I wear?
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We want everyone to feel comfortable, but we encourage formal / festive attire. Lakeside has a strict policy of collared shirts or mock turtlenecks for men and NO DENIM for anyone.
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Where should I stay?
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We have hotel blocks and recommendations. Please visit the travel page!
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Do you have a gift registry?
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We want to emphasize that your presence is the gift to us. Especially for those traveling out of town. We know that December is not the cheapest nor most convenient time of year to be traveling and buying hotel rooms and flights. We cannot thank you enough for taking the time and effort to be here with us, so we genuinely do not expect a gift. We truly are happy that you were able to attend. For those that insist on bringing a gift, we did have a lot of fun making a gift registry (that you can find under REGISTRY at the top of the page) but please do not feel obligated.
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What is parking like?
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Lakeside Golf Club has valet parking. Uber / Lyft is highly encouraged for those that want to partake in the open bar. We want everyone to be safe.
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What are we eating?
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Hors d'oeuvres will be served during cocktail hour, right after the ceremony. For dinner, Daniel is excited to announce that we chose the "Pit Master" selection. This will be a buffet style dinner, leaning into BBQ items. For the vegetarians, please let us know your preferences when you RSVP so that we can accommodate.
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What if I have food allergies or dietary restrictions?
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There should be room for you to add this info when you RSVP, but if you are having trouble doing that, please reach out to the bride or groom to ensure that your needs are met.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! The bar will be temporarily paused during dinner service, but there will be wine at your table to hold you over.
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How early can I arrive to the venue?
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Will find this out
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Will the ceremony and reception be in the same place?
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Yes! The entire wedding will be at the Lakeside Golf Club. If the weather allows, we will have the ceremony outside, and then move inside for dinner and reception. Keep an eye on the weather as you may need to dress warm for the ceremony. There will be a coatcheck for your convenience once we go inside.
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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11/19/26
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Can I bring a plus one?
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You should be able to see when you RSVP how many people we have accounted you for. If you need more invites, please let us know. Each extra or less person makes a big difference in wedding planning.
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Are children allowed?
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Lakeside Golf Club is a historic building, and therefore they have very strict rules and regulations regarding children under 10. We decided it would be easier to comply with having a kid-free wedding to avoid the stressful red tape.
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Can we take pictures during the wedding?
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We want everyone to be screen free and present during the ceremony. We have a photographer to get all the pictures. After the ceremony, feel free to take pictures, but Lakeside has a very strict policy about not tagging them if you post anything on social media. They are an exclusive club, so we want to respect the privacy of their members.