He inboxed me on Facebook and we chatted a while there until he finally asked me for my number and then asked me out. Our first date was to the movies and at that particular time he had NO recent photos of himself. The photos he had were before he lost his weight so needless to say I was looking for a Big Dude when I arrived at the theater. He was standing out front waiting for me and when I walked past him he said "Hey you where are you going?" I turned and looked and my mouth dropped open. I didn't know what to say because he didn't look the same to me. I honestly thought I was being catfished but in reverse lol. Nevertheless I like Lil Dude a lot more!