Jewish Wedding FAQs

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Pre-Ceremony Reception i.e. Kabbalat Panim

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Prior to the wedding ceremony, Daniel and Kiki will greet guests separately. Daniel will be hosting the "tisch" where guests will toast him, while Kiki will be seated to receive her guests.

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Veiling of the bride i.e. Badeken

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Daniel will come to place Kiki's veil over her, escorted by his wedding party. This symbolizes his commitment to protect her, and is reminiscent of Rebecca covering her face before marrying Isaac.

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Wedding Ceremony i.e. Chuppah

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The wedding ceremony takes place under the chuppah. Literally, it means “covering”, and it is a symbol of the home that Daniel and Kiki will build together.

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Circling

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Under the chuppah, the custom is for the kallah (bride) to circle the chatan (groom) seven times, in connection to the 7 days of creation and symbolizing the creation of their new home together.

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Bethrothal i.e. Kiddushin

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Blessing and drinking wine is incorporated into the wedding ceremony, and meant to sanctify the act of Kiki and Daniel choosing to marry and be with one another for the rest of their days.

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Giving of the Ring

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Daniel gives Kiki a plain gold band and places it on her hand, making the act of marriage official. This is the central moment of the wedding ceremony, and the point they are fully married. Woohoo!

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Marriage Contract i.e. Ketubah

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The Ketubah or marriage contract is read. The document outlines Daniel's various responsibilities to love and care for Kiki through the course of their marriage.

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The Seven Blessings i.e. Sheva Brachot

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Seven special blessings are recited by family and friends that Daniel, Kiki, and the family want to honor.

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Breaking the Glass

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A glass is placed on the floor, and Daniel breaks it. This symbolizes the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem. Kiki and Daniel are danced from the chuppah, leaving together as a married couple.

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Seclusion i.e. Yichud

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The guests dance and escort the couple to a private “yichud room”, left alone to enjoy and signify their new status of husband and wife.

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The Festive Meal i.e. Seudah i.e. party time!

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It’s a requirement that the guests bring the bride and groom joy on their wedding day by drinking, dancing and partaking in their festivities! It is now time to party!