Bj saw Kiarah at a senior night for her Neice Sanyia volleyball game, he didn't say anything, but he noticed her. Magical, he found her on social media and asked her about some fruit snacks she had. She answered him but nothing more after that. Then he saw her again at her niece's high school graduation, where they both said hello to each other. He was working so he didn't want to approach her so he messaged her on Instagram asking could he have the hat she was wearing. She told him No, so he stated, "Since I can't have your hat can I have your number?" She said Yes! They didn't hit it off right away but about 2 months later She asked him for a "Late Lunch Date" and They have been together since.