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What do I wear?

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Our wedding dress code is black tie optional/formal. For women, this generally means a floor-length gown, a fancy cocktail dress, or a dressy pantsuit - preferably no bright colors or loud patterns. For men, a tuxedo isn't required but welcomed - otherwise a formal dark suit, white shirt, and conservative tie are preferred.

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Where do I park?

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There is plenty of free, on-site parking available at the venue.

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Are children invited?

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While we adore your little ones, our wedding is an adults-only event so that everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the children at home so you can celebrate with us.

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Is the event outdoors?

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Both the ceremony and reception will be held indoors. The after party will be held outdoors.

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Can I bring a date?

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We ask that attendance be limited to only those listed on the formal invitation.

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Is transportation provided?

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No, transportation will not be provided from nearby hotels. Uber & Lyft are very accessible in the area.

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Are you having a ceremony?

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Yes! Although we are legally married as of 03/22/21 - we would love to celebrate with you during a traditional ceremony as well.

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Can I take photos & videos during the ceremony?

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We ask that you please refrain from photos and videos during the ceremony, so as not to interfere with our photographers and videographer.

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