FAQs

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Will there be dinner at the reception?

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No dinner for reception guests, just a popcorn bar and ice cream bar! EAT BEFORE you come because we are DRINKING. Dinner will only be provided for the guests in attendance of the actual wedding ceremony - fill out your RSVP to see if this applies to you.

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Do my kids really have to leave by 8 o'clock?

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YES, the reception will NOT be family friendly after 8 pm. Our baby will be leaving, so yours will need to as well. Please do not bring children if they will not be able to be picked up by a trusted adult no later than 8 pm. This is for the safety and security of all kidos and parents in attendance; we appreciate your understanding.

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What should I wear?

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Attire is formal, anything nice that you're comfortable in - NO JEANS or WHITE OUTFITS. Feminine - dresses, nice pants & blouses, heels optional Masculine - dress pants or khakis, dress shirt/polo, tie optional

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Is there free liquor?

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We will have beer and wine free of charge, and a cash bar (cards accepted). Be prepared to TIP YOUR BARTENDER. You are more than welcome to BYOB and keep it in your car.

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Warning - Big Fat Gay Wedding Ahead

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We would love nothing more than for you to be a part of our special day. With that being said, if you do not whole-heartedly support us and the life we choose to live, please send a card and your regrets. The newlyweds will not be sensoring themselves out of discretion for others - this is their day.

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Will I receive a physical copy of the invitation?

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We are NOT mailing invitations to everyone; this is a virtual wedding invitation. Only ceremony guests will be provided physical invitations. IF you want a physical copy of the invitation, you must submit your address via the RSVP.

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What can I bring instead of a gift or card?

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1) You can contribute to our Honeymoon or Basement Remodel by going to the Registry page on this website. 2) There will be a Venmo/Cashapp QR code for virtual cash gifts. 3) We will have a joint box gift option as well.

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Do I really have to RSVP? You already know I'll be there...

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YES! Your RSVP will show you want events your are invited to, along with calendar links for each!

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What is an UNPLUGGED ceremony?

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We invite you to be completely present in the moment with us, as we make our commitment of love to each other. Please absolutely NO CELL PHONE usage during the ceremony. All cell phones should be SILENCED and PUT AWAY for the duration of the ceremony. No photos or videos on cell phones are permitted at any time during the ceremony, as we have hired someone to capture those things for us. *In teacher voice* Seriously, do not let me even see you pull that cell phone out.

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If you throw up...

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If you throw up anywhere other than a toilet, you will be removed from the premises. Period.