FAQs
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So this is a multi-day thing?
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Correct! The traditional Nigerian ceremony is Thursday, December 8th and the western ceremony is Saturday, December 10th. Note that they're in different locations and both taking place indoors (more info in the Schedule tab). We'd love to see you at both, but totally understand if you can only make one or the other.
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What's a Nigerian Engagement Ceremony?
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The traditional Nigerian engagement, or trad as it's commonly called, is a cultural ceremony where the groom publicly states his intention to marry the bride, and the bride's family publicly accepts. The families are represented by one or two Alagas, who cheekily facilitate the ceremony. The groom's family also presents a dowry to the bride's family, called Eru Iyawo. The bride & groom wear a traditional fabric called Aso-Oke and friends of the family wear a designated, color-coordinated fabric called Aso-Ebi. Read more: https://www.weddingfeferity.com/yoruba-traditional-wedding-ceremony-igbeyawo-2-2/
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Is there a dress code?
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The dress code for the wedding events is cocktail attire, and casual wear for the welcome drinks and farewell brunch. Wear what makes you feel like your best self!
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Can I bring a guest?
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Please see your RSVP instructions for your unique guest count.
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Can I bring children?
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Although we love your little ones (so much!), please note this is an adult only affair. Thank you for understanding.
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What will the weather be like?
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December in Houston can be unpredictable! According to the internet, it can range between 43-63F, but most of our events will be indoors. We'll update this as we get closer to the date.
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Will parking be available?
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Yes, for free at both venues! We are not providing any formal transportation for the weekend. There is ample parking for those who feel comfortable driving, and Uber/Lyft is a great option for those who don’t. Please keep yourself and others safe by defaulting to a ride service or carpooling with a designated driver if you plan to drink.
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What type of food and drink will be served?
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We will be serving primarily Halal Nigerian food on Thursday and Saturday. We plan to make arrangements for our vegetarian and pescatarian guests, but please let us know through your RSVP if you have any food restrictions.
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What if I have allergies or dietary restrictions?
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Please let us know when you RSVP! The food will be halal and there will be a vegetarian and pescatarian options.
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Are there any COVID precautions?
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For the safety of our older and immunocompromised guests, we are asking everyone to be fully vaccinated and boosted against COVID-19. Ideally, we'd also appreciate it if you took a rapid test at most 48 hours prior to each wedding event you plan to attend.
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Where should I stay?
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We have some hotel blocks near the Saturday venue in Montgomery (see the Travel tab). But note that the events on Thursday and Saturday are about an hour's drive in between (Houston is huge).
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How is Yuma so cute?
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Impossible to know. Better to simply bask in our ignorance and rub her tummy.