Kelsey & Sebastian
Wedding Party
Caitlin Custy
Matron of Honor
Caitlin is my oldest sister. If you get the chance to be in the same room as Caitlin, you are lucky. Her caring & witty-self will have you feeling comfortable in any situation. She is quick to make a subtle joke that you will think about later and just giggle. I appreciate Caitlin for always being there for me & for being my night time skincare routine buddy, hair/makeup artist and closet for many years. Oh! And we can’t forget Caitlin being my co-dinosaur in the morning. I am so thankful to have had Caitlin as my role model growing up.
Adas Olczyk
Best Man
I really cannot believe people are unlucky enough to either not have a brother or not have a relationship with their brother. I love my brother. I am honored to be his older brother and I know that he knows that. My mom jokes that I was unhappy when he came home from the hospital because he was a baby and not able to do things with me, that was probably the one and only time I was upset with him. Adas is everything anyone could ask for in a brother and a friend. Plus, he is pretty damn handsome. He was my best friend my whole life and we always will be. I am so proud of him and hope that he pursues any dream he sets his mind on because I know he can accomplish anything. Thank you for not taking the job at Chili’s in 2011, if you did, who knows if this day would have ever happened.
Meaghan Banks
Matron of Honor
Meaghan is my second oldest sister. Meaghan is always one to genuinely listen to you. She is sweet and radiates kindness. One thing I have always admired about Meaghan is how she will learn your favorite candy or dish and will make sure to supply it for you at any opportunity. Meaghan has supplied the majority of the chocolate chip cookies Sebastian’s eaten in the past 8 years. Meaghan inspires me to want to be a better listener and to do the little things for those closest to you.
Maximillian Mikunda
Groomsman
Max. He is such an important person to me, and I hope he knows that. Words truly cannot describe all that Max is responsible for when it comes to who I am today. He has taught me so much in life and has been there for so many of my proudest moments. I always saw Max as the person I wanted to be, he has always been cool, confident and succeeds at whatever he puts his mind too and these are just a few of the traits I love about him. My memories of times with Max are endless, he has been by my side literally, throughout my whole life. That was not always his choice as kids, but I know it is his choice to stand by me now. I hope that everyone has someone in their life that means as much to them as Max means to me. Thank you for everything you have done for me, Max.
Victoria Baribault
Bridesmaid
Victoria and I met at a Cinderella play when we were 11 years old. We didn’t have major roles so there was a lot of time for bonding. We then did cheerleading together and went to middle & high school together and well, the rest is history. She became my best friend pretty much instantly. If you see us together, we are either high-fiving each other, playing games, cracking dad jokes, talking about plants & Trader Joe’s or just happy to be in each other’s company. I can always rely on Vix for all the laughs. My ring is actually the last engagement ring Victoria sold when she worked at Baribault Jewelers!! Be sure to make your way to the dance floor for September by Earth, Wind & Fire. This is Victoria’s song! Do you remember the 21st night of September? She’s our September 21st baby!
Corey Gallagher
Groomsman
Oh god, Corey Gallagher. My nemesis turned best friend. My grandma used to warn me that the troublemaker kids with the spiked hair were looking for me. She was kinda right. We fought often but always laughed harder when it was over with, and I love that about our friendship. I hope that I pushed Corey to be better the same way he pushed me. Every time we get together, I can count on laughing to legitimate tears over some story Corey has for us or just from our conversations. We share a similar view on a lot of things, and we understand each other in a way that I think everyone needs from a friend. I should probably not have him stand by me at the wedding because he'll look better than me in his suit, but I couldn't imagine such an important part of my life without him by my side.
Rachel O’Connor
Bridesmaid
Rachel has also been my best friend since middle school and man, she has been there through all the awkwardness. I appreciate Rachel for always being there for me. Rachel has been there, supporting me throughout a lot of my major life events thus far, so it only makes sense she will be by my side on my big day too. She is protective of me, she doesn’t let anyone even look at me funny (even though I’m probably making some weird noises so can’t really blame ‘em). We bond over our love for sports (especially the NY Giants) and love of Bravo shows. Oh and of course our similar taste in music & always being down to hit the dance floor. You’ll definitely see Rachel on the dance floor knowing the words to every single song (not kidding, she literally knows every song).
Tom Dadona
Groomsman
Without Tom, my life could have been totally different. Because of him I was introduced to the best group of friends I could have asked for in Colchester. Without these friends I potentially would never have found my passion for Football which taught me so much about myself as a person. This is all because Tom might be the nicest person in the world (this is coming from the guy marrying Kelsey Maher). If Tom never decided to be nice to the awkward kid in his 5th grade class who knows what I would have become. Thank you for that. Tom has always been there for me and I hope that he can say the same about me for him. I am honored to have him stand by me at our wedding and hopefully some lucky lady can get him to break out some of the hidden dance moves he has been keeping secret.
Cayla Ruiz
Bridesmaid
I first met Cayla as Dan’s girlfriend in 2013 but she quickly became one of my closest friends. Whenever we are together there’s giggles & something being spilled. Cayla has witnessed mine and Sebastian’s love from the beginning. She even witnessed our first kiss, in dan’s shed.. during beer pong! I am so thankful for Cayla. She is goofy & sweet and always up for a good time… especially if we are able to be in our comfy clothes.
Dan Thompson
Groomsman
Where do I start with this guy? We were always just a few houses away, but it took up to 6th grade for us to actually connect and what a ride it has been since. I imagine my kids in the future asking what my childhood was like and I will be hard-pressed to think of anything that does not start with "Well Dan and I". We tried buying an alligator on the internet and that would have been the least of our parents worries with us. Dan has taught me so much about myself and I hope I had 1/2 the impact on his life that he has had on mine. I am so proud of the man that he has become and cannot wait to experience the rest of our lives. I could not have asked for a better friend to experience the ups and downs of life with. Thank you for always being yourself, Dan, I wouldn't want you any other way.
Amanda Finocchiaro
Bridesmaid
I became close with Amanda in 8th grade when we did cheerleading & had a few classes together. I think there was more goofing off than listening but hey we still remember our jokes from class so we learned something! I appreciate Amanda for always being down to do the weird & silly things with me. Whether it’s pretending to be turkeys at the thanksgiving day road race or creating a funny video, Amanda is my girl for it. Amanda is truly there for me when I need her. I couldn’t imagine my wedding day without Amanda by my side.
Tomek (Tom) Malek
Groomsman
I know I said that Danny is finally my big brother but that is not exactly true, depending on if you believe you need to be legitimately related to be brothers. Tomek was my next-door neighbor for 27 years of my life and I wish that never had to change. I learned so much from him growing up, but I think courage is what I picked up from him more than anything. Tomek is literally always down to try anything, and chances are he is good at that thing you do with him. Whether it was dirtbikes or mountain biking, Tomek has led the way in pushing me to believe in my abilities and get me out of my comfort zone to actually progress. Also, this man is a true turtle hero, which if you know anything about Kels and I, is a BIG DEAL!
Julia Hersh
Bridesmaid
Julia aka Hershey! Julia and I were softball teammates on the Hebron Mustangs in grade school & we only got closer from here on. We bond over our love for espressotinis & having a similar food palate. I appreciate Julia for always keeping it real, being able to engage in a conversation about anything and being my own personal stylist. Hershey is always down to have a great time so I know she’ll definitely help bring the party on our wedding day!
Mateusz Mikunda
Groomsman
Team blondies for life. Mateusz (Mat) has been by my side for as long as he has been alive. I spent countless days of my childhood getting into any sort of adventure or trouble you could imagine with this stud. His sense of humor is one of a kind but what really hits home for me is having conversations with Mat because he is truly a great listener. I can only hope that I can be as honest and sincere as he is and I look up to him in that regard. Whenever we get together, we share amazing memories, better laughs and we always leave each other with a hug. I could not imagine standing on my wedding day without him at my side.
Julcia (Olczyk) Griffith
Bridesmaid
Julcia - aka Yulcha! Sebastian’s older sister & one of the smartest people we have ever met. If you want a fun fact about anything, go see Yulcha! Yulcha makes me feel comfortable to always be myself. On vacations when Sebastian is still sleeping.. I will even go snuggle up with Yulcha and her wife Allison. I appreciate Yulcha for always looking out for me and protecting & guiding me both on the mountain (when we’re shredding the snow.. I mean she’s shredding, I’m surviving) and just in general life. When I need advice about anything, she is my go to girl. I am so happy Yulcha is who she is.
Danny Maher
Groomsman
I'm finally getting a big brother! Danny has been nothing but an inspiration for me to do better and be better. I have watched him be an amazing uncle, son, fiancé (or husband depending on when you are reading this!!), brother and friend. If you love the Giants, Red Sox, UConn or any sports try to have a word with him, chances are you will learn something from him. I am honored to be able to call him my brother-in-law and I cannot wait to continue to learn from him.
Tracy Davis Maher
Mother of the Bride
I (Kelsey) don’t know what I did to deserve my mom. She is truly the best. She is the most loving & supportive person I have ever met. I can truly go to my mom with anything and feel better afterwards. Tracy is always the one to come up with unique & notable details to make people feel special. Kelsey is proud to carry on her mom’s hospitable ways. Kelsey’s mom has taught her to reach out to people when you think of them, give compliments where they are due and choose experiences & simplicity over tangible things. Kelsey’s parents are both nice but she gets her charming & sweet self from her mom for sure.
Grazyna (Grace) Olczyk
Mother of the Groom
Grace is always looking to add a sparkle to your life. Both figuratively & literally! Maybe she’s the reason Kelsey’s ring is so sparkly… We admire Grace for her honesty & ability to develop a plan & design for anything. We refer to her as our personal interior designer. We like to hear Grace’s opinion (on our plan) prior to starting any home renovations or updates. Also, if you ever have the opportunity to have a meal made by Grace.. you are blessed. We think her food is better than most restaurants. Maybe because it is filled with so much love. Sebastian is honored to have inherited Grace’s honesty & ability to see things as a whole.
Kevin Maher
Father of the Bride
The sports man. The weatherman in the family. The funny guy. Kelsey’s running buddy. If you see Kevin on his phone he is either looking up scores, checking the radar or sending a witty text to his family (usually with a gif). Kevin will bend over backwards for his family. He is the definition of “cherish your tribe and love them hard.” He has strong morals & Kelsey believes one of the best qualities she learned from her Dad was to always keep your promises. Kelsey is strong-willed & loyal because of her parents. Kevin taught Kelsey all about sports, she loves the NY Giants, Red Sox & UConn because of her Dad. Another great quality of Kevin is his ability to make you laugh in any situation. Kelsey gets her sense of humor from her Dad. Them together are the biggest goofballs in the room.
Witold (Victor) Olczyk
Father of the Groom
Mr. fixer upper er I mean Victor! The first to help on a project and let’s be honest here.. he’s also the first to complete any project. Victor will spend 15 hours in a car driving from SC to CT and immediately work on a home project the next morning. We appreciate Victor for his hard work. We call him level 100 because he is level 100 (top level) with home repairs but also because he is always ready to give 100% of himself in every situation. When Victor is not doing home repairs, he is enjoying the company of those around him by engaging in conversation & eagerly listening to other people’s thoughts & experiences. Sebastian is proud to carry on Victor’s ‘exuberance to take on anything’ attitude & ability to make deep connections with people.
Debra Baribault
Officiant
Kelsey met Deb (aka Shmeb) when she became friend’s with her daughter (Victoria) in 5th grade. Kelsey appreciates Shmeb for always making her feel welcomed & treating her like her own daughter. From our trips to Rhode Island, Myrtle Beach and all the other events in between, it was a no brainer that Shmeb would be an ideal person to marry Kelsey & Sebastian. Kelsey & Sebastian admire Shmeb for many things, but there are two reasons that especially stand out - Shmeb always being a fun time & for bringing Victoria in this world - who is a very close friend of Kelsey & Sebastian. Also save the turtles! Shmeb owns a small business and it includes a turtle line where a portion of the proceeds go to a Turtle Conservatory! https://livebywatermakewaves.com/collections/turtles