When Clay and I got engaged, it was the same day the world as we knew it turned on its head. When we started planning our wedding, it was with the hope that the world would somehow work itself out by the end of the month, the summer, the year... it had to, right? As we've moved forward with planning the wedding we always hoped to have, we've had to be flexible. Our original date changed, and our guest list shrank by more than half, limited to our immediate families, our wedding party, and a small handful of close, local friends. We're staying outdoors, giving ourselves room to distance, and taking safety precautions. We're also not excommunicating anyone that doesn't feel comfortable attending. We absolutely understand, and our feelings will not be hurt. We'll just expect extra Christmas presents. (Kidding... ish.)
In the interest of safety, we are asking the vast majority of our friends, extended family, and those who would have to travel out of state to attend to think happy thoughts for us, and send us their well wishes from home. It doesn't mean we don't love you, I promise. We wish you could be with us more than anything. That's why we're planning a super-belated after party sometime in the future, when all of the people we love can safely celebrate together. We hope you can join us then!
If you would feel more comfortable in a mask, we support and encourage you, but it's not required. We bet you make that mask look good, too. If you prefer not to wear one, cool! We just ask that you be mindful of others. (And maybe plan on bringing one, just in case...)