FAQs & Info
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Registry & Favors
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If you choose to bring a gift, you can find our registry under the "Registry" tab. Alternatively, we would be touched if you made a donation to The Trevor Project in our names, an organization that is very meaningful to us. This incredible organization provides crisis intervention and suicide prevention services for LGBTQ+ youth. Furthermore, in lieu of traditional favors, we are honored to make a donation in each guest’s name to support The Trevor Project. If supporting this makes you uncomfortable, we ask that you reconsider attending.
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RSVP
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RSVP instructions will be included in your formal invitation, and we kindly ask that you reply by April 6th. After this date, any unanswered invitations will be considered as "not attending" due to our vendors' deadlines. If you know you are unable to attend before receiving your invitation, please reach out to Kayla or David, as this will make it easier for planning.
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Plus Ones
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Unfortunately, due to restricted numbers we cannot accommodate everyone bringing a date. We respectfully ask that you do not bring a plus one unless your invitation and RSVP specifically say "and Guest". Thank you for understanding.
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Dress Code
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The dress code is Black Tie Creative Formal attire is expected—tuxedos and gowns preferred. Black is always a great choice, but if you’d like, feel free to incorporate color, patterns, or unique details for a creative touch. Keep it elegant, but have fun with it!
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Parking at The Boro Hotel
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There is typically ample street parking near the Boro Hotel. However, if you prefer a garage, the hotel recommends LAZ Parking at 30-02 39th Avenue, which is a 2 minute walk away.
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Directions to The Bordone
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The address for The Bordone is 43-10 9th St, Long Island City, NY 11101 and is accessible by car and taxi/rideshare. For those choosing to drive, there is street parking at the venue.
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Guest Arrival
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Please arrive at The Bordone starting at 4 pm. The ceremony will promptly begin at 4:30 PM. Late guests will not be able to come upstairs until the ceremony has ended.
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Ceremony Photos
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We ask that you silence and put your cell phones and cameras away for the ceremony. There will be plenty of time later in the evening for you to take pictures of the beautiful Manhattan skyline. The officiant will make a reminder prior to the ceremony starting.
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Ceremony and Reception Location
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Weather permitting, the ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors. The reception will be inside with access to the terrace throughout the night.
