We have a very long, thoughtful, diverse, and fun list of music that everyone will know and enjoy. There won’t be a need for requests.🙂 but if there’s something your heart so boldly desires, go for it!
Absolutely ZERO cell phones/devices during the ceremony! We will have a box that everyone will put their phone in until after the ceremony. We have paid good money for 2 professional photographers to capture every beautiful angle to reminisce over. We have hired someone to watch our guests and escort ANYONE out if there is any type of device that could hinder the beauty of our photos. Nobody is an exception. The ceremony will also start over from the beginning of the interruption. Please be present with us and don’t be that embarrassing guest… Call me bridezilla
There will be personally-picked hors d’oeuvres, open and full bar, and full 3 course dinner by your Groom and Bride to be. Food is a part of our love language and we are so excited for you to enjoy the dishes we have chosen.
Absolutely ZERO tolerance for outside drinks/not from our vendor!! There is a very large $200 charge PER PERSON caught drinking! This bill will be hand delivered to you as we will not be held responsible for it, and we are already investing into you having an entertained and fulfilled evening with us. Open bar is a full bar open during cocktail hour right after the ceremony, and then closed down until halfway through dinner. Then, the bar will remain open for another 3 hours.
This is a semi-formal / cocktail attire event. We do ask that you not wear white, obviously, and burgundy, as that is our wedding party colors.
There is a very strict list of photos that we are taking in a specific order right after the ceremony so that we may enjoy our guests and wedding in a timely way best for us. You will be given the list of ordered photos and when you will be in them. You will be able to take photos with everyone else when we are taking our newlywed photos. Please stay close so we can capture this special moment with you❤️
We have only our select immediate family of children who are in the wedding and will not be at the reception. Kids are not allowed, but we still love them!
The ceremony starts at 5:30 pm Please arrive an hour early at the Least, so that we may start the ceremony on time. If you arrive later than 5:10, please wait by your car or you’re welcome to sit in the waiting area inside the building. Please be respectful as there is only a short 30(ish) minute period for us and everyone else to enjoy our ceremony.
No. We have a very strict budget, and we have used it to accommodate a very fulfilled evening for our guests on our RSVP list. Plus ones not invited will be asked to leave.
Please do not take anything as there are lists of things that we want to keep, and a list of things that are property of The Montage venue. Please don’t steal.
Please do not post anything of our wedding until we, the bride and groom, have done so already. We are very intimate and personal, and our privacy is so special to us. We’ve specifically chosen those who we have decided to let into our world and we would love to keep that between us until we are ready to post.🥰