We kindly ask guests to wear traditional or modest formal attire that covers shoulders and knees. Men: Slacks or dress pants with a collared shirt. You’re welcome to wear a kurta if you’d like! Examples of Indian garbs for men (top 7 are typically worn): https://www.utsavfashion.com/blog/ensembles/indian-formal-wear-male Women: Long dresses, skirts, or pants with a modest top. Indian outfits like saris or salwar kameez are welcome but not required. Conservative clothing is *highly recommended*. Examples of Indian garbs for women: https://www.lavanyathelabel.com/blogs/news/different-types-of-indian-dresses?srsltid=AfmBOookE6LDa6BVYefnprVhEu2dkK_iSjeoT9F-yboyHHm4hM78DToC Avoid: Black (associated with mourning), white (worn at funerals), or clothing that’s too revealing. Note: You may wear your shoes in the hall, but you must remove your shoes if you would like get on stage, where the bride and groom perform the rituals.
Please arrive at 10:30 am. The ceremony begins at 11:31 am. There will be plenty of parking available, so don't fret!
The hall is behind the temple, which is called the Akella Hall. The address is: Shiva-Vishnu Temple 1232 Arrowhead Dr Livermore, CA 94551
Yes, absolutely!
No pressure at all! Just observe respectfully and enjoy the experience. Some rituals involve blessings, offerings, or chanting — feel free to participate silently if you're comfortable, or simply watch.
The core ceremony will be in Sanskrit, but we’ll provide: A brief welcome explanation from the priest or an emcee
The full South Indian wedding ceremony typically lasts 60 to 90 minutes, followed by lunch. We promise it’ll be colorful, joyful, and full of meaning!
Yes, feel free to take as many photos or videos as you like!
Yes! A delicious vegetarian South Indian meal will be served after the ceremony. It’s flavorful, festive, and completely meat-free (and egg-free). If you have food allergies, please let us know in advance.
Yes! The temple welcomes all respectful guests, regardless of religion or background. Please be mindful of: Silence or quiet voices inside No photos inside the inner sanctum No meat, leather belts/bags, or alcohol on temple grounds
Your presence is the best present! If you'd like to give a gift, we are grateful but it's totally optional. Here is the registry: https://www.zola.com/wedding/kaushikandaishwarya2025/registry
South Indian Hindu weddings are rich in rituals, symbolism, and blessings. You’ll see the couple exchange garlands, walk around a sacred fire, and tie a ceremonial necklace (thaali), symbolizing marriage.
Absolutely! Hindu weddings are family-friendly and kids are welcome. Just keep in mind that some parts of the ceremony are quiet, so bringing quiet toys or snacks is a good idea.