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October 12, 2025
Bernalillo, NM
#KatieTookTheHopWithTom

T & K

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by August 12th so we can finalize all the details and make sure there’s a seat (and a plate!) with your name on it. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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Is there a dress code?

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The dress code is semi-formal—aka, show us your best date night outfit! Think cocktail dresses, dressy jumpsuits, slacks with a button-down or blouse, blazers, or a suit if you’re feeling fancy. We want you to feel polished but comfortable enough to dance all night!

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Can I bring a date?

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We love celebrating with all our favorite people—but due to limited space, we’re only able to accommodate the guests listed on your invitation. Thank you for understanding!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We kindly ask guests to begin arriving by 3:30 PM. The ceremony will start promptly at 4:00 PM, and we’d love for everyone to be seated and settled before the big moment begins! Please give yourself a little extra time for parking, finding your seat, and soaking in the beautiful vibes. (And trust us—you don’t want to miss the beginning!)

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Since most of our guests are local, we haven’t reserved a hotel block. However, if you’re traveling in and would like to stay nearby, there are plenty of great hotel options in the area! Check out our Travel page for recommendations and booking links.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones, but this will be an adults-only celebration. Only the children specifically named on the invitation are invited. Think of it as a well-deserved date night—fancy outfits, good food, and dancing without worrying about bedtime!

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