The ceremony will start promptly at 4:30pm. You are welcome to come as early as 4pm. We recommend you arrive by 4:15pm in order to give you time to find a seat.
If you have received our save the date and already know you will not be able to attend, no worries! Please text Tommy or Katie that you will not be able to make it.
Unfortunately there is a limit on the guests we can invite and cannot accomadate a plus one for everyone. If you are a special case where we have allowed you a plus one, we have listed her/his name or "Plus One" on your RSVP profile. If you feel we left out someone important, let us know, but understand that our limitations may mean our hands are tied.
October in Oakland, CA, features mild to warm, sunny weather, with average daily highs around 71-75 degrees Fahrenheit and cool nights, with lows dropping to 52-54 degrees Fahrenheit. It is generally dry, with minimal rainfall, making it one of the warmer, more pleasant fall months. The ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outside while the reception will be inside.
Yes, there is a parking lot at the venue although we suggest Uber and Lyft if you want to have a good time!
Once you have received our official invitation, you can RSVP on this very website - just look at the top of the screen. Please send us your acceptances or regrets by August 15, 2026.
We have added a tab called "What to Wear". This is for guidance only. We want you to feel your best. The country club does have a strict dress code stating: no T-shirts, jeans or hats.