FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP on or before July 20, 2025.

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Is there a dress code?

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Black tie preferred. Guests are encouraged to wear black tie. For men, a tux or dark suit is preferred. For women, a floor length or tea length evening gown is preferred.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Parking at the church is very limited. Guests are strongly encouraged to consider the following transportation options: ~ Guests not staying at the Double Tree by Hilton Hotel Reading are encouraged to park at Stokesay Castle, Lower Lot. Shuttles will provide transportation to the ceremony at Saint Mary Church at 12:45 p.m. Following the ceremony shuttles will provide return service to Stokesay Castle. ~ Guests staying at the Double Tree by Hilton Hotel Reading are encouraged to park at the Double Tree. Shuttles will provide transportation to and from the ceremony at Saint Mary Church beginning at 12:40 p.m. Following the ceremony shuttles will provide return service to the Double Tree. ~Beginning at 3:45 p.m. shuttles will provide transportation from the Double Tree to Stokesay Castle for Cocktail Hour and the Reception. ~Shuttles will provide transportation to the Double Tree following the Reception.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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For the Ceremony at Saint Mary Church, parking is extremely limited. Please see Travel page for shuttle details or the FAQ regarding transportation. Parking for the Reception is available at Stokesay Castle, Lower Lot.

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What can I do between the ceremony and cocktail hour?

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Following the ceremony and before cocktail hour, a cash bar will be available at the Knight's Pub at Stokesay Castle. The bar will open at 2:30 p.m. for guests who are so inclined.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Please specify food allergies at time of RSVP.

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Are kids welcome?

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Although we love the children of our family and friends, our wedding will be a child free event.