FAQs

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When should I RVSP by?

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Please RVSP by March 08 2026.

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When should I arrive?

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Welcome Party: We will be there from 5pm - 9pm. Please feel free to drop by anytime between then for some food and drinks. Wedding: Please arrive by 4:15pm for a 4:45pm ceremony.

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Is there a dress code?

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Welcome Party: Casual Wedding: Cocktail Attire - suits or blazers for men and elegant dresses or jumpsuits for women. Please no white. For those wearing heels, the venue is mostly turf.

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will take place outside in the secluded garden of the Twin Oaks House and Garden Estate. The Reception will be in a grand tented pavilion at the same location. If it gets too cold, it can be heated. If you're sensitive to the cold then feel free to bring a jacket just in case

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What's the weather like?

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Weather in Mid-April in San Diego is estimated to be highs of 73° / lows of 51°. With the low humidity, it's generally warmer than expected in the sun and cooler than expected in the shade.

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Hotel and transportation to and from the wedding venue

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There are two hotel blocks with discount links, please view them on the Travel page. There will also be a shuttle from the Ayres Hotel to the venue, departing sharply at 3:45pm. The shuttle will have two departure times from the venue back to the Ayres Hotel, one at 9:00pm for those who want to retire early and the main departure after the wedding at 10:15pm. The venue has plenty of free parking if you plan on driving, and you can leave your car overnight as long as you pick it up by noon the following day. No drinking and driving. Ubers/Lyfts are available but we recommend scheduling rides ahead of time just in case.

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Do I need to bring my ID?

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Yes! Especially if you are planning on drinking.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We ask that you put your phones and cameras away during the ceremony as we want you all to be present with us in the moment. We have a professional photographer capturing the ceremony for us. Other than the ceremony, yes! Please feel free to take as many photos and videos as you like.