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November 21, 2026
Santee, CA

Kathryn & Lukas

flowersflowers

FAQs

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Where is the wedding taking place?

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Our ceremony will be held outdoors at Carlton Oaks Country Club in Santee, California. The reception will follow indoors in the adjacent reception space.

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What time should I arrive?

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Guests may arrive at 4:00 PM. The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30 PM.

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What should I wear?

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Business casual attire is requested. Please dress polished and wedding-appropriate. Since the ceremony is outdoors in November, consider bringing a light layer for the evening.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes. The open bar will begin once the reception starts. If you would like a drink before the ceremony or reception, the venue bar will be available for purchase.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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When you RSVP it will exclusively tell you if you have a plus one!

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Is there a hotel room block?

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We have reserved a hotel block at Carlton Oaks! Recommended hotels both near the venue and on the premises are listed on the Travel page if you wish to stay elsewhere. We encourage booking early to secure your preferred location and room!