Kathryn & Jeremy
FAQs
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What is the wedding day timeline?
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We will begin the ceremony at 4:00 pm. Cocktail hour begins at 4:30 pm and the reception will end at 9 pm.
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When should I arrive at the ceremony?
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We recommend that you arrive at least 15 minutes before our 4:00 pm ceremony time.
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Is this a gender neutral wedding?
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YES! Kathryn is non-binary, so the wedding will be gender-neutral. You will not see Mrs. used anywhere. Kathryn will be using the gender-neutral term Mx. So at the wedding you will likely see Mx. and Mr. everywhere! Please respect people's pronouns and what they would like to be called.
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When should I RSVP?
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If you are able to RSVP when you receive your invitation - that is great and very helpful! Our last day to RSVP is August 15th, 2023. Our vendors require us to provide head counts by this date, and any unanswered RSVPs will be counted as a "No." Thank you for understanding!
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Can I bring a date?
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We, unfortunately, cannot accommodate additional guests. Due to limited capacity, we can only allow the people named on the save the date
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Do you have a hotel block for guests?
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Yes! We have reserved a room block for our guests at The Lenox Hotel. For more information, please see the "Travel" tab.
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Do I have to stay in The Lenox Hotel?
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We would love you to, but you do not have to. We do have a discount code for guest rooms, call and say you are with the Baker-Davis Wedding
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Are my kids welcome?
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Although we love your kids, in order to give our guests (and parents!) a night of relaxation, we respectfully request no children under the age of 12 at our wedding.
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What should I wear?
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We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up with us! We are requesting a formal dress code. The colors black, green, purple or blue are preferred Please no white clothing.
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Can I take pictures?
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We are having an "unplugged" ceremony. This means we are asking that all phones and devices be put away and on silent/turned off during the ceremony. Why? Well, we've hired a professional to capture some of the most important moments of our lives. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos as you want!
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What words should I use to refer to the newlyweds?
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Kathryn is non-binary, so they use they/them pronouns and will not be using bride. They are using the terms 'nearlywed' or 'spouse-to-be.' Jeremy uses he/him pronouns and will be using the word groom, etc.
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Is there a gift registry?
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Yes! Your presence at our wedding is a gift in itself, but if you feel inclined to give more, please contribute to our registry located on our website.