FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please check your invitation for our RSVP deadline.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes! Please see the Registry page on our website for all details.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Our ceremony will begin at 4:00pm. We kindly ask that you arrive at the location no later than 3:45pm to be seated beforehand. You may wish to arrive slightly earlier to park, get settled, etc.

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Is there a dress code?

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We’d love to see our friends and family dressed up for the big day! The dress code is semi-formal. We ask that you avoid any colors traditionally reserved for the bride: whites, ivories, or creams. Our ceremony is outdoors on grass, so please keep that in mind when choosing shoes. We know that hats/fascinators are traditional for women to wear at British weddings. For our guests from the UK, please feel welcome to wear one if you would like to, but not obligated. (Note that the summer heat might make it more comfortable to go without!)

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Can I bring a date?

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Your invitation will let you know if you are invited to bring a plus one. If you do not have a plus one marked, we kindly request that you do not bring a date. Because of the small size of our venue, we have to limit our guest list to closest family and friends. Thank you for understanding!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Please see the Travel section of our website for all details about accommodation options, as well as flight information and other travel details.

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Is there parking at Buttermilk?

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Parking is available at Buttermilk Falls Inn and Spa. The ceremony and reception locations are within walking distance of one another at the venue, and golf cart service will also be available for any guests who require assistance moving around the venue.

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Will the wedding be outdoors?

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Yes, our ceremony is outdoors in Buttermilk’s gardens. The cocktail hour and reception will be indoors and air conditioned.

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What type of food will be served?

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We will be serving hors d'oeuvres at cocktail hour followed by a sit-down dinner at the reception.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Of course! If you have any dietary restrictions or allergies, please let us know when you submit your dinner request in your RSVP.

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Can I take photos?

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Our wonderful photographer will be taking care of capturing the wedding! We kindly request an unplugged ceremony—please do not use your phones or devices during this time.