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We can't wait to celebrate with you!
We can't wait to celebrate with you!

Kate & ConnerKate & Conner

Leaves and Lights

FAQsFAQs

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Do I RSVP online or do I need to mail in an RSVP card?Do I RSVP online or do I need to mail in an RSVP card?

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Online! Once you receive an invitation in the mail via USPS, there will be a QR code on the back of the invitation that you can scan with your phone (or go directly to our website) to RSVP. You will enter your name into the website and respond as to whether you or members of your group will be attending.

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What date should I RSVP by?What date should I RSVP by?

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September 1, 2025

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What happens if I RSVP after the deadline?What happens if I RSVP after the deadline?

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Unfortunately, if you RSVP after September 1, 2025, you will not be added into the final headcount. As much as we would love to include you, we need to give our vendors ample time to prepare for the big day which includes knowing the confirmed number of guests.

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I'm coming from out of town - where do I stay?I'm coming from out of town - where do I stay?

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We have a hotel block of reserved rooms at two hotels near our venue for our guests coming from far away. Look under the "Travel" tab for details.

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Which airport should I fly into?Which airport should I fly into?

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We recommend flying into Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport (DCA).

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What is the dress code?What is the dress code?

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Semi-Formal.

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Is there parking at the venue?Is there parking at the venue?

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Yes! There is a parking lot with 120 spots so there should comfortably be enough for everyone.

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Indoors! Our venue is a rustic barn that has a gorgeous interior so we couldn't resist keeping it indoors. However, there are fire pits outside that the guests are welcome to gather around.

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What is the weather like in early October in Northern Virginia?What is the weather like in early October in Northern Virginia?

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The weather is great! It should still be warm but not overly hot. Assuming the weather cooperates, it should be a lovely autumn day.

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Am I allowed to bring a plus one and/or my children?Am I allowed to bring a plus one and/or my children?

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Yes! Both plus ones and children are welcome and have already been added to the RSVP list. Just make sure you indicate whomever you're bringing when you RSVP. If you run into any issues during this process or have any questions about guests, please contact the bride, groom, or Mother of the Bride directly. Children who attend the wedding must be supervised at all times.

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What type of food will be served? Is there anything for someone with food allergies/dietary restrictions?What type of food will be served? Is there anything for someone with food allergies/dietary restrictions?

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We will have yummy appetizers (i.e., corn fritters, panko crusted shrimp with tartar drizzle, beef skewers, mediterranean sticks, etc.) as well as a dinner/reception served buffet style. You can expect ribeye with or without sauce, Cajun chicken, salads, bread and butter, roasted carrots, mashed potatoes, and, of course, dessert! We will have two flavors of cake (lemon w/ strawberry cheesecake filling and red velvet w/ classic cream cheese filling, both having vanilla buttercream icing) as well as a dessert table that will have some gluten-free options. If you are uncertain about any of the ingredients as it relates to food allergies/restrictions, be sure to ask the catering staff.

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What time should I arrive at the venue?What time should I arrive at the venue?

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4:00 PM EST. The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30 PM.

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What time should I leave the venue?What time should I leave the venue?

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The venue asks that we have our guests depart by 10:00 PM.

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What is the plan for your wedding day?What is the plan for your wedding day?

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We will start with the ceremony, move into cocktail hour, and then have a reception with music and dancing should you feel like busting a move!

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Is cocktail hour and the reception at the same venue as the ceremony, or is it somewhere else?Is cocktail hour and the reception at the same venue as the ceremony, or is it somewhere else?

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Every part of this celebration is at our same beautiful venue!

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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

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If you must... Just kidding! Yes you may, but just be sure that it doesn't cause any distractions during the ceremony. We would hate to take away from the bride and groom's special moment.

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What is your wedding hashtag?What is your wedding hashtag?

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#ItStartedWithASparks Ya know, just like "It started with a spark." We're so cute, lol.