30 minutes before the time on the invitation to guarantee guests are seated when ceremony starts.
Indian weddings are full of color, tradition, and vibrant style. We encourage you to embrace the opportunity to dress up in beautiful, traditional Indian attire, although it is not mandatory. For Women: Women typically wear colorful kurta sets. If you need help, look into outfits such as salwar, sharara, anarkali, gharara suits, etc. Look for rich colors, intricate embroidery, and beautiful fabrics. Avoid wearing plain white or black, as these colors are usually reserved for somber occasions. If you prefer a less traditional look, a long, elegant dress with Indian-inspired details can also be a lovely choice. Just make sure the dress is ankle/floor length. You must also cover your head with a chunni/dupatta (or a shawl if not going traditional). For Men: Men can wear a sherwani, a formal suit, or a kurta paired with churidar or pants. Men also cover their head, you can choose to wear a bandana/patka. If you have any questions about what to wear, please text us.
If you plan on buying a traditional outfit, I suggest doing so asap as the outfits take a lot longer to get here. Here are some websites I recommend: Lashkaraa Pernias Pop Up Azafashions Kalki Little Muffet (for kids)
Shoes cannot be worn in the gurdwara (church). You will take them off and set them in a shoe room before entering the gurdwara so, I suggest wearing something that is easy to take off and put back on.
Men must sit on one side of the room whereas women all must sit on the other side, so be aware you will not be sitting next to each other. Also, there are no chairs, so be prepared to sit down criss cross applesauce.
Yes, after the ceremony Indian food will be served. Meat is not allowed on the premises so it will be vegetarian style.