In the fall of 2016, Xian and Karson met on a dating app. Karson was not out to anyone, and was scared to death of that idea. Because of this, he told Xian his name was “Rick” and that he was from "New York City". (what good love story doesn’t start out with a fake identity? Haha) Xian and “Rick” became inseparable, bonding over their love of the outdoors, traveling, animals, home projects, thrifty shopping, and adventures. They began to spend more and more time together until the days grew into months. About 5 months into their relationship, Xian text “Rick” letting him know he was filling out the information to have “Rick” referred to a job at Jet Blue. ‘Rick”, began acting anxious knowing he needed to use his real name. Xian, sensing this, asked, “is Rick not your real name?” “Rick” responded with the words everyone loves to hear, “we need to talk.” Haha The truth came out as Karson had a tearful confession. Xian was compassionate enough to understand the circumstances and the fear of coming out. So while Xian was shocked with this news, he realized they now had even more in common. He was very understanding and knew he loved Karson! (Or was it Rick? Haha) They now think this story is hilarious and laugh at it often. Years later, they purchased a home in North Salt Lake. A few months afterward, Karson came out to his friends and family. He considers himself very blessed as, despite his greatest fears, they of course continued to love and support him, and welcomed Xian as well. Together they have navigated many trials, renovated a home, and traveled. Both have a love for animals as they currently have bees, chickens, chameleons, and of course, their French Bulldogs :) March 2019, while in the coastal town of Split, Croatia, Xian slipped a ring into Karson’s gelato hoping it would end in an engagement and not in Karson choking to death. The plan worked and Karson said “Yes” to a lifetime of animals, adventures, love, and of course, ice cream!

The story continues on August the 10th 2019, as your presence is requested to celebrate their journey to love. Please come celebrate their commitment to continue to grow together in love and start their beginning as the Mackintosh/Phippen family.