FAQs
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When is the RSVP Deadline?
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The RSVP Deadline will be January 14th, 2026. 6 months before the wedding to give the couple ample time to plan accordingly.
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What should I do if I can't make it?
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You will be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate your regrets to us and on our RSVP tab so that we can plan accordingly. Thank you!
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Where should I fly into?
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Oklahoma City will be the nearest airport/big city to the wedding venue. Oklahoma City is about 30-40 minutes from the wedding venue in Luther, OK. Yes, it is more common to fly into Tulsa, but you would be almost tripling your travel time to the venue, so it would be smarter to fly into Oklahoma City.
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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We have a hotel block at the Comfort Suites in OKC! See the 'Travel' section of this website for the booking link and more details!
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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?
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Dress Code: Western Elegance Our wedding will be set against the backdrop of Oklahoma’s open skies, with a style that blends rustic western charm and timeless elegance. If you'd like to nod to the theme with boots, hats, or western themed pieces, feel free—but there's no pressure to dress western. Classic cocktail or semi-formal attire is just as lovely. Come dressed to celebrate!
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How can I contact the couple about questions?
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You can text Karder at: (360) 319-4417 You can text Michael at: (360) 927-0485 Or email us at: karderandmichael.wedding@gmail.com Please do not contact our venue! We ask that all questions go through us first.
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When will official paper invitations be sent?
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Later this year we plan on sending out official invites.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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We’d love to celebrate with all your loved ones, but due to space, we’re only able to accommodate the people listed on your paper invitation that will be sent out later this year. Thanks for understanding!
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What's the weather going to be like?
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Oklahoma weather can be unpredictable, but plan for warm to hot with humidity.
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Are the ceremony and reception at the same place?
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Yes! The ceremony and reception will both be held at the same venue. No travel needed in between.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please plan to arrive at least 20–30 minutes before the ceremony begins. We want to make sure everyone is seated and ready for the big moment. Please don't be late!
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Will there be transportation or parking available?
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We don't currently plan on a shuttle to the venue, as some guests won't be staying all in the same place. If that changes, we will be sure to let guests know. If you’re driving, there’s free parking at the venue!
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We kindly ask that you put your phones and cameras away during the ceremony. We’ve hired an AMAZING photographer to capture every moment, and we’d love for you to just be present and enjoy it with us. Don’t worry—there will be plenty of time for photos afterward!
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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?
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We kindly ask the ladies to refrain from wearing white, ivory, champagne, or cream color attire.
