FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

January 14, 2026 (or before! (please RSVP before then, we beg of you))

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Can I bring a date or my children?

Answer

Due to limited space at The Bur Oak, we can only accommodate the individuals named on the RSVP webpage. If you have any questions, please reach out to Tim or Kaleigh directly.

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Is there a dress code?

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Our suggested dress code is colorful cocktail, so wear something bright and celebratory! We'll be wearing fun colors, too :) This would be the perfect time to wear that super cute (and maybe a little ridiculous) outfit that's living in the back of your closet!

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Is there parking available at The Bur Oak?

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Street parking is available in the neighborhood surrounding our venue. Please make sure to read and adhere to any parking restriction signs that are posted. If you're planning on drinking, we recommend taking an Uber/Lyft or carpooling with a responsible driver.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive by 3:45pm so the ceremony can begin on time at 4pm.

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What's for dinner?

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Dinner will be served family-style at each table :) - Garden tossed salad served with ranch & balsamic dressings - Slow cooked roast beef with gravy - Tortellini & chicken with a pesto cream sauce - Garlic mashed potatoes - Honey glazed carrots ** Vegan & Gluten-Free: Acorn squash, hollowed out and stuffed with curry seasoned ancient grains quinoa salad and topped with red pepper coulis (must be noted on your RSVP)

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...and for dessert?

Answer

Stellie's Ice Cream - both ice cream & sorbet (flavors TBD) Bloom Bake Shop - vegan & gluten-free cookies & bars

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

Of course! There's a spot on the RSVP to let us know if you would prefer the vegan/gluten-free dinner entree. However, please reach out to Tim or Kaleigh directly if you have additional concerns.