We would love for them to attend the ceremony at the Lighthouse, but reception is adults only please.
No, the Lighthouse and Wyndham are 1.5 miles from each other. The Wyndham does have a shuttle based on availabilty, but there are alway Uber drivers around.
If your invitation says "and Guest," then yes, if not, we would prefer if it were just you.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.