We'd love to see our family & friends get dressed up for our big day! The dress code we prefer is formal or black-tie optional attire. Ladies can wear an evening gown, an elegant cocktail dress, or a fancy jumpsuit. Men can wear a tuxedo or a suit and tie. Need help? We like this guide: https://www.theknot.com/content/formal-wedding-attire
Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate the guests listed on your invitation. If you receive a plus one, they will appear on your addressed envelope and when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!
As much as we love your little ones, this will be an adult-only event, with the exception of the flower girl and the bride & groom's nieces and nephews.
The ceremony will take place outside by the pond and big willow tree, weather permitting. The cocktail hour and reception will take place inside the double barns.
We are having a fully "unplugged" ceremony (no phones or cameras). We kindly ask our guests to be fully present as we say "I do." We have hired talented professionals to capture this moment, and we'll be sure to share photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you would like. Don't forget to upload your photos to our Wedibox so we can experience all the fun!
Please RSVP no later than August 31st, 2025 by using the QR code on your invitation or the RSVP tab on our website.
If you do not RSVP by August 31st, 2025, you will be marked as "not attending." We would love to celebrate with you, however, we need to provide an exact guest count to our venue and vendors. You will be missed!
The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:00 PM. Please arrive 15-30 minutes early to ensure you are seated on time.
There is plenty of parking at The Barns at Wesleyan Hills! If you plan on partying hard, we suggest appointing a designated driver or using Uber or Lyft. :)