FAQs
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HOW DID YOUR LOVE STORY START?
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One night Kaiden was just sitting there enjoying his night at a Tyler Holstege's and then BAM, this nosey girl came up and started in on Kaiden and his friend's conversation. They just included her in the convo and eventually she left. BAM, one year later Kaiden was just enjoying his weekend at Tyler Holstege's property at Silver Lake. The same nosey girl was up there for the weekend too. This time she was crippled in a wheelchair with a cast on her leg and hand. This captured Kaiden's attention. Kaiden and the crippled girl (Alyssa) started talking and she was explaining how bad of a driver she was (pshhh typical women things). But, that day Kaiden found his soulmate. He started pushing her around in her wheelchair, giving her piggyback rides, and just being a complete proper gentleman, as he is. After spending the weekend hip to hip, Kaiden offered to drive her home from silver and drop her off at her apartment. Then they hung out when they got to her apartment and continued to hangout nonstop for 3 months straight after that. Look, now they're getting married :) Written by Kaiden
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CAN I BRING MY KIDS?
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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event with the exception of kids directly involved with the ceremony. We are unfortunately unable to accommodate everyone’s children at our wedding. This pertains to children of all ages including, infants, toddlers, kids, and teens. We would love to see all of our family and friends use this as a kid-free date night! Thank you for respecting our wishes!
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IS THERE A DRESS CODE?
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We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up for our big day! Remember, we hired a professional photographer. Think cocktail/summer garden party. Please NO jeans. Ladies, please no white or other colors typically reserved for the bride. The bridesmaids will be wearing a dusty rose/blush florals.
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CAN I BRING A DATE?
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Due to limited space, we're only able to accommodate the guests that are included on your invitation. If you received a plus one, they would appear under your name when you RSVP. Uninvited quests will be asked to leave.
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HOW DO I RSVP?
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You can click the RSVP tab above and RSVP at any time before June 23rd. Search for your invitation by typing in one of the names on your invitation. From there you will be able to RSVP.
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WHAT IF I DON'T RSVP BY THE DEADLINE?
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If we do not receive an RSVP back from you by our specified deadline (June 23rd), you will be marked as “not attending.” The reason for this being that we must provide accurate guest counts to all our vendors within a timely manner. We hope you understand, and we will miss you celebrating with us!
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WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE?
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We ask that you arrive to the ceremony 30 minutes prior to ensure you are able to sit where you wish.
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WILL WE BE INDOORS OR OUTDOORS?
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BOTH! We are hoping for great weather for our ceremony, but always be prepared for Michigan weather. The reception will be held indoors! Ladies, the ceremony will be held on grass.
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WILL THERE BE AN OPEN BAR?
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Yes! The party is on us, but the hangover is on you! Please plan accordingly and have a safe ride home. Get ready to celebrate!
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WHERE SHOULD I STAY FOR THE WEDDING WEEKEND?
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Thank you wholeheartedly for traveling to come celebrate with us! Please visit our “Travel” tab to see hotels in the area.