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November 1, 2025
Santa Barbara, CA
#KeepingUpWithTheKirbys

Kaelie & Clayton

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If you have any other questions than what we have listed, please contact our wedding coordinator.
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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP online or by mail by October 1st, 2025.

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Where are you registered?

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You can find our registry by scrolling up to the site to the "Registry" tab.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your kids, we really do. We also want to allow all wedding guests, including parents, a night of relaxation and uninhibited revelry. We respectfully ask that no children attend the reception.

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Can I bring a date?

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As much as we would love to include plus ones, our wedding is an invite and RSVP-only event.

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Is there a dress code?

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The event is black-tie optional. Examples of this attire for women may include a floor-length gown, a fancy cocktail dress, or a dressy pantsuit. Men could consider wearing a dark suit, white shirt, and coordinating tie.

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What is the parking situation like at the venue?

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Villa and Vine does not have on-site parking, however, there are ample parking structures in close proximity to the venue. If staying in a hotel or accommodation in Santa Barbara, we would suggest utilizing Uber/Lyft. A map of nearby parking structures can be found in the "Travel" tab under our "travel note." Villa and Vine is located across the street from Arlington Theater on State Street.

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Is this event indoor or outdoors?

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The wedding will take place both indoor and outdoor. We recommend bringing a light jacket, as it can get chilly at night. Heaters can be placed around the perimeter of the outdoor space.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive to the ceremony by 3:45pm. Ceremony will start promptly at 4:00pm.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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While we encourage our guests to commemorate the night, we politely ask that you remain "unplugged" during the ceremony. Our photographer will be sure to capture the moment for us.

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Will food and drinks be served at the reception? What kind of food?

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During cocktail hour, light hors d'oeuvre and appetizers will be served. Dinner will follow at around 6pm. Alcohol will be provided and we encourage everyone to party responsibly ;)

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